How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 03.07.2025 05:08
Do not set goals—set systems.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What I need from you?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Proba-3’s first artificial solar eclipse - European Space Agency
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Nintendo Warns Switch 2 Owners Not to Remove Protective Screen Film - CNET
Making more friends is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Is it legal for an employer to ask why you are taking time off from work?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Does not procrastinate.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
The best Apple deals you can shop ahead of Amazon Prime Day 2025 - The Verge
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Early AI investor Elad Gil finds his next big bet: AI-powered rollups - TechCrunch
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What is the dirtiest thing you have allowed your husband to do?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
That's it for today.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
What are some reasons why men may not want to date a woman who can pay her own bills?
Ask yourself:
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What To Expect In Wednesday's Report On Inflation - Investopedia
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
What did Starbucks and Dunkin' Donuts do wrong in Sweden?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Procrastinates a lot.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.